► My husband is alcoholic & he is mentally abusing me every 2nd day. He drinks for 4 to 5 days in a week.
If he is sober then he behaves positively but once he is drunk - he threatens me to beat, provokes me to fight.
He is not stable or never been stable in his career in past 13-17 years & I have handled every expense before & after marriage for his head to toe, home furniture, electronics, etc etc. From past few months since I lost my job - he is not properly giving me money to handle household expenses, he reminds me that he is doing a favor by handling expenses and behaves that he is burdened. In past 4-5 years, I paid in lakhs on his hospital bills several times due to alcohol consumption. He stole my jewellery, money multiple times to drink & pay his debts. There are endless incidents bcoz of which Im going through hell mentally.
I have a home loan (for the house bought in my hometown before marriage for my own family) & car loan (for my father), besides this - rent here in Gurgaon, electricity, maid salary, wifi, phone bills, food, dog expenses, etc are there for which I needed his support this 1st time in life. He gives money for rent plus hardly for electricity, however not for other stuff regularly because he needs money for his alcohol, ciggerate & non veg food regardless of what I have done for him or handled his expenses for years n years.
So my savings are getting finished.
I need seperation & maintenance both till the time I get some job or set up my own business. I don't seek his money but since I have done more than enough for him, so I also seek my maintenance to survive till the time I start to earn.
In my case, maintenance is bit high since I have loan EMIs besides regular household expenses.
Please suggest.
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